saxxxology:

thing-you-do-with-that-thing:

Daddy Kink

I am gonna get in hot water for this but it’s come to a point where I don’t care.

I work as a social worker with kids that suffered abuse. I know a lot of you say that the kink has nothing to do with incest and it might not to you. You don’t read the cases I read or talk to the kids I have in my care.

I am not saying the kink is wrong at all. Have fun with it. But please stop mainstreaming it so much you put it randomly on people’s posts or just throw it into conversation. It’s a kink like everything else. Kinks can squirk people out, condjure unfortunate images in their head or even trigger them.

It’s not about the kink. It’s about the behavior. Pleeeease think a little further next time before you put it on someones post or just write it without tagging. Please? I can get by but I had a girl crying over a twitter message not even sent to her in my office today because it triggered her. Yes it squirks me out and it makes me think of stories I rather wouldn’t in my free time. At least I didn’t live them. Be considerate that some people did.

Before I get this put in my inbox let me make it clear:

It’s not kinkshaming just because I ask you not to push it onto others and to be considerate.

THIS. ALL OF THIS.

As someone who has the kink (for Negan/John/JDM only), I hate seeing it shoved onto post belonging to somebody else. Feel free to put it on your own posts where people have a choice if they want to reblog it (tagging the kink is also a great thing to do, y’know, in case people don’t want to see it), but if you take an innocent post and make it intensely sexual in any regard, that’s a horrible thing to do.

It’s just self-awareness and considering who you may be affecting.

I completely agree. I’m not kinkshaming. I’ve been clear that I don’t dig the whole daddy!kink for a plethora of reasons, mostly because of the triggering sexual connotation to those I work with as well. And in general. Be wary, be cautious, be courteous. Be a kind human being please. Well said @thing-you-do-with-that-thing and @saxxxology